It's possible to use much larger key sizes than 2048 bit RSA for TLS. So the argument that 256 bit RSA provides much more security than 2048 bits RSA may not apply.
If used with a 2048 bit RSA key then using AES-256 may not make too much sense. But don't forget that AES-256 will be used to encrypt large amounts of plaintext, and that attacks on AES will be quite different from attacks on RSA. Furthermore, AES-256 is not that much slower than AES-128 - and certainly not twice as slow as you may expect.
In general using AES-128 or AES-256 won't make much of a difference. Using EDH for perfect forward secrecy or the application of strong(er) authentication will arguably have more of an impact on security.