The main reason is historical (and a bit sad).
ECDSA can be seen as a repurposed authentication mechanism. The private key owner wants to prove knowledge of the private key $x$ that matches a given public key $Q = xG$, but without revealing that private key. Thus, this is organized as a three-step protocol:
- The prover makes a commitment on a newly generated random value $k$; the commitment is the point $kG$ (value $r$ is basically the X coordinate of that point).
- The verifier issues a challenge (let's call it $e$).
- The prover responds to the challenge with a value $s$, which is such that the verifier can check that the prover knew a value derived from $k$ and $x$, but without actually revealing $x$.
This authentication scheme is then turned into a signature scheme by making the signer play the protocol against himself: the challenge is computed deterministically from the commitment, making the physical presence of the verifier unnecessary. The signer can play the protocol by himself, and the transcript of the protocol (the pair $(r,s)$) can be verified non-interactively afterwards.
Now, in the 1980s, there was a nice protocol fitting that mechanism, known as Schnorr signatures. In a Schnorr signature, the challenge $e$ is computed as a hash value over the signed message and the commitment, and the response is computed as $s = k - xe$ (some variants make it $s = k + xe$). However, Schnorr had filed a patent on that algorithm. When the US federal government looked for an algorithm to standardize for all US federal organizations, they wanted to avoid patents as much as possible (otherwise, they would have used RSA, which was also patented). Thus, they looked for a more-or-less Schnorr-like protocol that would be nonetheless different enough so as not to infringe on the patent. They thus lifted the ElGamal signature scheme, which was not patented (at that time! Certicom filed patents afterwards, for ElGamal adapted to elliptic curves). It was ElGamal that introduced the modular inversion of $k$, which is cumbersome to implement. The result of the adaptation of ElGamal into a US standard was called DSA. ECDSA was later defined as DSA applied on elliptic curves.
Thus, you can say that the specific formula of DSA and ECDSA, with the $k^{-1}$, was chosen for patent avoidance reasons, not for any cryptographic advantage. Indeed, that formula sucks: it makes implementation more complicated, it prevents some security proofs, and it makes the signatures somewhat malleable (if $(r,s)$ is a valid ECDSA signature, then $(r,-s)$ is also a valid ECDSA signature on the same message with the same key), a property which has induced some occasional trouble (namely, transaction replay attacks in Bitcoin).