In researching about RSA accumulators I came across this question, Inclusion and Exclusion proofs in RSA accumulators - from the first answer I had assumed that proof of non-membership could be computed without knowledge of the set, i.e. using only the accumulator value itself ($A$), and the element ($x$) not contained in $A$. This is accomplished with Bézout's coefficients $ax+bu=\gcd(x,u)=1$, the proof is $\pi=(𝑔^{𝑎},𝑏)$, verification is checking $(g^{a})^𝑥⋅𝐴^{𝑏}=g^{ax+bu}=𝑔$. If adding a member then proof of membership can be done without the set also.
When I revisited this after looking at a few implementations I realized the implications, 𝑢 is the product of the accumulated elements, and therefore although the individual set members are not required, this product is, and it could potentially be a huge number with many accumulated elements, and therefore storage or communication of 𝑢 might be infeasible quite quickly, as compared to the accumulator itself which uses modular exponentiation.
Have I missed something? Is the exclusion proof possible without the set? I ask as I experimented with say 1,000,000 set members, each with a hash to prime computed for it, e.g. Blake256, and quickly realized that not only is 𝑢 hard to store and communicate with an increasing number of elements but it would take forever to calculate the product of those primes, so in effect, proof of non-membership without knowing the set is only possible with a small number of accumulated elements (providing this product can be communicated and stored)?
If the above is the case, then is there another tool, accumulator, or otherwise, where an exclusion proof is possible without possessing the set members (or the product), or is this fundamentally not possible?