With RSA, there is no known way to deduce the private key based on chosen ciphertext; that is, even if the attacker has oracle access to the private operation, the key is still safe.
However, this doesn't mean that it's safe to give an attacker this access; he can't deduce the key, but he can use this access to decrypt anything he wants (and this is the nonobvious part) he doesn't have to reveal what he's decrypting to the RSA implementation. That is, even if you design the implementation to attempt to not tell him the decryption of a specific message, he can decrypt that message anyways.
The technique he would use is called 'blinding', and here is how it works; assume that the attacker has a ciphertext $C$ that he wants to decrypt; what he does is pick a random number $r$ and compute: $C_{blind} = r^e C$ (where $e$ is the public exponent). He then presents $C_{blind}$ to the Oracle for decryption.
Now, $C_{blind}$ is effectively independent of $C$; the Oracle cannot deduce any information about $C$ (because for every possible $C$ value, there is a value of $r$ that makes it work).
The Oracle then returns $P_{blind} = C_{blind}^d = r C^d$. The attacker then computes $P = P_{blind} r^{-1} = C^d$, which is the decryption he is looking for.
As for your second question; whether it is possible to deduce the public key, no, from a single plaintext/ciphertext pair, it isn't possible.
However, from two plaintext/ciphertext pairs, it is (as long as the public exponent $e$ is sufficiently small). Here is how it works: if we have a plaintext/ciphertext pair $P_1, C_1$, we know that: $$P_1^e - C_1 = k_1N$$ where $e$ is the public exponent, $N$ is the modulus, and $k_1$ is some integer. If we have a second pair $$P_2^e - C_2 = k_2N$$ we can then compute $$gcd( P_1^e - C_1, P_2^e - C_2) = gcd(k_1N, k_2N) = N gcd(k_1, k_2)$$ $gcd(k_1, k_2)$ is almost certainly a small integer; allowing us to recover $N$.
If we don't know $e$ apriori, we can just search through the various possibilities (we're assuming $e$ is small, hence there aren't that many)