As X3DH uses elliptic curve Diffie-Hellman, I'll write things in elliptic curve notation thus if we have a curve $E$ with $q$ points and a base point $G$ we might see Alice choose a private key $a\pmod q$ and create a public key $A=aG$. It should be easy to convert to multiplicative notation if you need to.
Regular Diffie-Hellman
In the regular form of the Diffie-Hellman, Alice and Bob each choose a single private value $a$ and $b$ respectively, and generate public keys $A=aG$ and $B=bG$ which they then exchange. In the notation of the question
$$\mathrm{DH}(A,B)=aB=bA=abG$$
is the shared secret value. Although it is written as a function of $A$ and $B$ this is in a mathematical rather than a computational sense. It should be infeasible to compute $\mathrm{DH}(A,B)$ without knowledge of one of the private values. This notation can be frustrating.
People talk about static Diffie-Hellman and ephemeral Diffie-Hellman depending on whether the same values are used over multiple exchanges or whether new values are generated for each exchange. Static Diffie-Hellman gives some assurance that you are communicating with the same person in both exchanges. Ephemeral Diffie-Hellman prevents the same key being generated and provides forward security which is the assurance that if a private key becomes known, it only jeopardises a single message rather than any previous ones.
X3DH
X3DH tries to create keys with the benefit of both the static and ephemeral versions. It has Alice and Bob choose multiple secret values and public values, say $a_0$, $a_1$ etc. and perform multiple DH computations to combine the results. In particular, they both create long term identity keys $IK_A=ik_AG$, $IK_B=ik_bG$; they create medium term signed keys $SPK_A=spk_AG$ and $SPK_B=spk_bG$ which change from time-to-time but are digitally signed so that users can be assured that they are only used by the claimed user; they create several one-time-keys. In particular then
$$\mathrm{DH}(IK_A,SPK_B)=ik_ASPK_B=spk_BIK_A=ik_Aspk_BG$$
and
$$\mathrm{DH}(EK_A,IK_B)=ek_AIK_B=ik_BEK_A=ek_Aik_BG$$
Thus there is a measure of both identity assurance and separation of key values.
The X3DH protocol is designed so that Alice can initiate communications even when Bob is offline and so it makes sense for Alice to perform her half of the computation and send it even if Bob is not present. Bob can then complete his half of the transaction when he comes online and deals with Alice's message.
