For any integer $k>1$, the function $F$ onto $\Bbb Z^*_k$ (the subet of integers in $[0,k)$ that are coprime with $k$ ) defined by $x\mapsto x^{-1}\bmod k$ is a permutation of $\Bbb Z^*_k$.
For any finite set $\Bbb S$ and any permutation $F$ of $\Bbb S$, if $x$ is uniformly random on $\Bbb S$ then $F(x)$ is uniformly random on $\Bbb S$.
It follows that if we choose $d$ uniformly randomly in $\Bbb Z^*_{\varphi(N)}$ (which is a fair model of choosing a large random $d$ ), and compute $e=d^{-1}\bmod\varphi(N)$, then the resulting $e$ is uniformly random on $\Bbb Z^*_{\varphi(N)}$. The average of $e$ is going to be about $\varphi(N)/2$, thus not "small" in the sense that has in RSA for "small $e$".
In an RSA context, $\log_2(N)\approx\log_2(\varphi(N))$. If $N$ is $n$-bit, a random element of $\Bbb Z^*_{\varphi(N)}$ is going to be $k$-bit or less with probability less than $2^{k-n+1}$, thus very seldom "small" (e.g. for 2048-bit $N$, 128-bit or less with probability $2^{-1919}$ ). That applies to $e$ for a random $d$ (large or not).
Summary: Choosing $d$ at random and computing $e$ from that gives overwhelming assurance that $e$ is not small. There's no such thing as large $d$ implying large $e$.
Note: the question is correct when stating that choosing $e$ small then $d=e^{-1}\bmod\varphi(N)$ ensures that this $d$ is large. But it is wrong in assuming that a large $d$, or/and a large $e^{-1}\bmod\varphi(N)$, is enough that the attacks alluded to don't work (this is referring in particular to Dan Boneh and Glenn Durfee's Cryptanalysis of RSA with Private Key $d$ Less than $N^{0.292}$, in proceedings of Eurocrypt 1999).
For example, we could chose $r$ a random prime of $\frac27\log_2N$ bits, then $e=(\varphi(N)/2+r)^{-1}\bmod\varphi(N)$, then $d=e^{-1}\bmod\varphi(N)$. That $d$ is $\varphi(N)/2+r$, thus about 1 bit less than $N$, thus large. However $r$ is another working $d$, and is consistently small enough to allow the attack.
What matters to prevent the attack is that there exists no small positive working $d$, in other words that $e^{-1}\bmod\lambda(N)$ is not small, where $\lambda(N)$ is the the Carmichael function, with $\lambda(N)=\varphi(N)/\gcd(p-1,q-1)$ when $N$ is the product of two distinct primes $p$ and $q$. That is insured when $e$ is small and the factors of $N$ chosen randomly and mostly independently, making it unlikely that $\gcd(p-1,q-1)$ is unduly large.